Sadness, I think, is inevitable when we lose someone we love, but suffering is not.
When we have unresolved issues with our loved one, we can end up holding onto our pain and grief out of guilt, or as a way to try to hold onto them.
We might feel guilty at feeling joy or laughing, or guilt if they haven't been on our minds for a time.
I want to tell you now - any pain, grief, suffering or anger you are holding onto is yours alone. The one who has passed does not feel any of these things.
Having moved behind this earthly plane, they see with absolute clarity their life and relationships. In their eternal connection to your soul, they can only connect with love.
I feel it is so important for us to release any fear and negativity in our connections with them. I have explained to you in my workshop on "Managing Your Energy: For Sensitive Souls" about fear-based and love based energy connections or "cords".
Love cords are eternal and infinite. They last through our lifetimes and beyond and can never be broken.
If we are holding onto any guilt, angel, pain or suffering connected with our loved one - then we have a fear-based or negative cord connected to them.
It is very important to clear this, so that we can then think of our loved one with joy and love - remembering the happy memories of what they meant to us and letting go of the suffering and pain.
A lovely client of mine had a daughter who died as a child. She blamed herself for this and understandably did not want to let go of her daughter. From this time, any time she felt any joy or happiness, she would then feel guilty... "who am I to be happy when she is gone.".
She held this pain for so many years.
When I first saw her, she had developed pancreatic cancer. As I began the healing and saw her energy, I saw a large, solidified cord of pain, guilt, hurt and negative energy connect from her to her daughter. This cord originated right where her pancreas was.
I believe that this stuck pain, grief, guilt and anger had resulted in her cancer.
During this Healing I worked with God and my Divine Helpers to clear and dissolve this painful cord. It took a significant amount of energy, but it did clear.
My client's daughter appeared. She said to her mother, "I love you." "I am happy." and then she said what my client so needed to hear "I forgive you.".
This was a breakthrough.
It was a very emotional experience for my client, a huge relief and release.
I heard a voice tell me "She is Healed".
When my client was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, she was expected to live only a couple of months. A pancreatic cancer is generally considered by medical professionals to be a death sentence.
But I am so happy to share with you that my client made a fully recovery! She is well and happy. She comes for a monthly Healing and boost for her wellbeing, and her daughter continues to visit in her Healings. Her daughter is the same playful and joyful soul she was in her life on Earth. She will playfully appear dressed as a fairy, with angel wings on, or with lights and always with messages of love and joy.
This has been a beautiful new beginning for my client.
Please know that you never have to choose suffering. Just reach out and ask for help, because the results can be truly miraculous.
With love and blessings always, Priscilla.
PS: I am thinking of holding a workshop where we can connect with our loved ones who have passed over and honour them, as well as release any pain we are holding onto unnecessarily. If your are interested in me running this - please comment on my post here or email me, and if there is enough interest I will run it. xx