I hope that my last blog, "Our Loved Ones In Heaven" has brought you some comfort and peace, but there is more I want to share with you about the importance of letting go of suffering when it comes to our loved ones who have passed.
Sadness, I think, is inevitable when we lose someone we love, but suffering is not.
When we have unresolved issues with our loved one, we can end up holding onto our pain and grief out of guilt, or as a way to try to hold onto them.
We might feel guilty at feeling joy or laughing, or guilt if they haven't been on our minds for a time.
I want to tell you now - any pain, grief, suffering or anger you are holding onto is yours alone. The one who has passed does not feel any of these things.
Having moved behind this earthly plane, they see with absolute clarity their life and relationships.  In their eternal connection to your soul, they can only connect with love.
I feel it is so important for us to release any fear and negativity in our connections with them.  I have explained to you in my workshop on "Managing Your Energy: For Sensitive Souls" about fear-based and love based energy connections or "cords".
Love cords are eternal and infinite.  They last through our lifetimes and beyond and can never be broken.
If we are holding onto any guilt, angel, pain or suffering connected with our loved one - then we have a fear-based or negative cord connected to them.
It is very important to clear this, so that we can then think of our loved one with joy and love - remembering the happy memories of what they meant to us and letting go of the suffering and pain.
A lovely client of mine had a daughter who died as a child.  She blamed herself for this and understandably did not want to let go of her daughter.  From this time, any time she felt any joy or happiness, she would then feel guilty... "who am I to be happy when she is gone.".
She held this pain for so many years.
When I first saw her, she had developed pancreatic cancer.  As I began the healing and saw her energy, I saw a large, solidified cord of pain, guilt, hurt and negative energy connect from her to her daughter.  This cord originated right where her pancreas was.
I believe that this stuck pain, grief, guilt and anger had resulted in her cancer.
During this Healing I worked with God and my Divine Helpers to clear and dissolve this painful cord.  It took a significant amount of energy, but it did clear.
My client's daughter appeared.  She said to her mother, "I love you."  "I am happy." and then she said what my client so needed to hear "I forgive you.".
This was a breakthrough.
It was a very emotional experience for my client, a huge relief and release.
I heard a voice tell me "She is Healed".
When my client was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, she was expected to live only a couple of months.  A pancreatic cancer is generally considered by medical professionals to be a death sentence.
But I am so happy to share with you that my client made a fully recovery!  She is well and happy.  She comes for a monthly Healing and boost for her wellbeing, and her daughter continues to visit in her Healings.  Her daughter is the same playful and joyful soul she was in her life on Earth.  She will playfully appear dressed as a fairy, with angel wings on, or with lights and always with messages of love and joy.  
This has been a beautiful new beginning for my client.

Please know that you never have to choose suffering.  Just reach out and ask for help, because the results can be truly miraculous.

With love and blessings always, Priscilla.

PS:  I am thinking of holding a workshop where we can connect with our loved ones who have passed over and honour them, as well as release any pain we are holding onto unnecessarily.  If your are interested in me running this - please comment on my post here or email me, and if there is enough interest I will run it. xx

Today I want to talk to you about loss.
Losing someone we love can be very painful, even when we believe they are in Heaven, not just gone.
Your connection of love with them will still remain. You might even receive little signs of their presence, like seeing butterflies, smelling their perfume, or other messages you know to be from them.  You may know that they visit you and are connected with you, or because of your pain, you may not feel that there are any signs at all.  When our heart is so heavy and our emotions are stuck in pain - it is harder for us to see the light around us, and to keep our faith.
I am blessed and honoured to see those who have passed on, in my own life and in my healings, so I would like to reassure you that nobody (including our beloved animal companions) disappears.
Many times during my healings, these loved ones appear spontaneously.  They want to show that they are present and to pass on their message of love.
Sometimes they have specific messages that they feel are important, things they wanted to say but didn't when they were alive, or messages on how they passed - messages to help their loved one find peace - as they are now at peace.
They communicate in much the same way as when they were alive.  Whether they are shy and quiet, or more outgoing or playful.  
In healing sessions with a regular client of mine whose daughter had died young, I would see her daughter every time, and so I got to know her, and so at the start of every healing I would say "Hello Crystal!".  I have a friend called Crystal whose mother had just passed over.  When in the healing I called out "Hello Crystal!", all of a sudden my friend's Mum appeared.  She was very insistent that she had an important message for her daughter - so she made sure I had all the details.  She also showed me that she was with her dog who had passed over - and who was very dear to my friend. 
When I told my friend what had happened and the message that had come through, she said it was typical that her Mum would interrupt somebody else's healing. ;)  But the message she had for her was one of love, and one she felt that it was so important for my friend to receive.
But whatever their personalities and styles of expression, they always have messages of love and support for their loved ones.
I know what it is like to long for contact with some one who has passed over, and to long for that reassurance that they are OK and that they know how much I love them, so I feel honoured to be able to help you to do the same.  During Healings, I have found that they will always answer any questions you have for them as best they can.
Please do let me know if there is someone special who comes to your mind when reading this.  You can reach our to me for a Healing and answers to all your questions if you would like to.  I would be honoured to help you in this way.
Sending love and angels to comfort and support you through any pain and grief.
With love and blessings, Priscilla.